Updated: Jul 4, 2020
Written by Rasheena @RahAKA
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Vexy, that’s his name because he gets me real Vex! Vexy continues to explain why he is not annoying and we should date. Claiming once we hang out, I would see him differently because he was only playing via text.
I didn't "lol" him once.
While he is denying being annoying, his actions are in fact extremely…annoying. Vexy is a grown man deliberately bothering a grown woman that he wants to date.
How that work?
I agree to go on one date to prove to him I still won’t like him. Isn’t liking someone on the phone the prerequisite for relationships?
Now we’re planning the date. We do the “what do you do for fun” thing. I tell him. I like batting cages, laser tag, basically anything that keeps us moving. Or just drinks and food at a place with good vibes. Do yall know Vexy spend 2 whole weeks texting “so what you wanna do”.
He had 1 job! ONE!
Finally, I pick a lounge that is 7 minutes from my house and is always lit. Easy escape plan. We get there, its packed. He does nothing to actively get us a table, he asked me to ask 2 men to move over for us to sit at the bar, and the entire time he is complaining about his sister living her best life!
I ended it by telling him I was 100% not enjoying myself. Please take me home.