By: Sumeet Manohare @accidental_blogger
You can never make someone love you back or make them feel something they don't. Loving someone who doesn't love you back is painful. It might make people do things to others that only push them away and doing this will only result in hurt. When you love or have feelings for someone, it's not always that they will love you back or have the same feelings, and you can't do anything about it. No matter how perfect you might be, they won't accept you. Still people often go out of their ways to get accepted by that specific person. Dating Guru, Website, Guide, Video or anything else that promises to get you that one person is nothing but a waste of time & energy. They might try to teach you techniques or tricks to make someone fall for you. Ask yourself, is this way you want to find love in your life? Seriously? If you fall in this trap of getting this one person, you will destroy so many important parts of your own life. Your thoughts and actions will always be about this one person which is very harmful. Never ever make one person or a relationship as a Goal or Mission of your life. If you do this you're already keeping that person at a higher position than you. This destroys your self worth badly. Even if you do get this person to love you, you'll always depend on him/her for love & acceptance. So, never ever try or beg for ove, approval, attention from anyone. Don't hate that person for not feeling the same way. It's not their fault they don't feel how you want them to. Ask yourself what you would feel in their position and you'll get your answer. Accept their honesty and move on with your life.
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